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Family law articles and guides for North Carolina.
In-depth articles on divorce, child custody, property division, alimony, and related family law topics to help you understand the process and your options.
Can I Get Alimony If My Spouse Cheated on Me?
Discovering that your spouse has been unfaithful is one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. When that betrayal leads to divorce, it is natural to wonder whether infidelity plays a role in what you are entitled to financially. North Carolina law does address marital misconduct in the context of alimony, but the rules are more nuanced than most people expect…
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Served with Divorce or Custody Papers in North Carolina? What to Do Next
Being served with legal papers can feel overwhelming. If you have been served with divorce, custody, or support documents in North Carolina, you may be unsure what to do next. The most important thing to understand is this: Being served starts a timeline. What Being Served…
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Why Waiting Until the Last Minute Can Hurt Your Family Law Case in North Carolina
If you have been served divorce, custody, or support papers in North Carolina, or you have a court date coming up, you may be thinking: “I still have time.” That pause is common. Many people want to understand their situation before taking the next step. However, waiting too…
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Do I Need a Lawyer Yet, or Is It Too Early? A North Carolina Family Law Guide
If you are facing separation, divorce, custody, or support questions in North Carolina, you may be asking: “Do I need a lawyer yet, or is it too early?” Many people start by researching online because they want to feel informed before making a difficult decision. That makes…
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How Are Military Retirement Benefits Divided in a North Carolina Divorce?
Divorce is rarely simple, but when one spouse has served in the military, the process takes on an entirely different level of complexity. Military retirement benefits represent one of the most significant financial assets many service members and their families will ever…
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What Should I Know About Dating During Separation in North Carolina?
Starting over is one of the most natural human impulses, and when a marriage falls apart, it makes sense to wonder when you can begin moving forward, including romantically. But in North Carolina, the line between separation and divorce has real legal weight, and what happens…
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The Most Honest North Carolina Family Law Answer Ever: “It Depends” (And Here’s Why That’s Actually Good News)
If you have ever asked a family law question and gotten the answer “it depends,” it can feel frustrating, especially when you want clarity fast.In North Carolina family law, “it depends” is often the most responsible answer because the details matter. A few key facts, like…
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Do I Need to Update My Will After Getting Divorced in North Carolina?
Divorce changes nearly every aspect of your life, from where you live to how you manage your finances. But one important task that often gets overlooked in the middle of all those changes is updating your estate plan. If you have a will, a divorce in North Carolina does not…
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What to Do Financially in the First 30 Days of Separation: A Practical Checklist
By Monica Scudieri, Personal Finance Coach and Author Separation is emotional. It is disruptive. In the first 30 days, it can feel like you are operating in survival mode. But this first month matters financially. The choices you make (or avoid) early on can affect your…
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Why Law Firms Must Actively Manage Their Google Business Profile
For many law firms, the first impression is not your website. It is your Google Business Profile (GBP). When someone searches “attorney near me” or Googles your firm’s name, the Google Map Pack often shows up before organic website results. That listing can drive phone calls,…
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When Does a Postnup Make Sense in North Carolina?
(After marriage, after a major life change, after your finances shift) Postnup after marriage in NC? Explore the most common reasons couples consider a postnuptial agreement and what to prioritize to reduce future disputes. Many couples assume marital agreements are only for…
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Can My Spouse Keep Me From Seeing Our Children During Separation?
The moment you realize your spouse is limiting your time with your children can trigger panic, anger, and overwhelming fear. You may wonder if they have the legal right to keep you away, or whether you're powerless to stop it. These questions race through your mind during one of…
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A Costly Divorce Lesson, What I Missed Even with a Great Attorney By: Andrea DeLucia
I Had a Great Attorney and Still Learned a Costly Lesson Educational information only, not legal or financial advice. Reading this does not create an attorney-client relationship. Let me start with something most people don’t expect to hear. In my first divorce, I hired a very…
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Can I Modify Child Support if My Income Has Changed in North Carolina?
Life rarely stays the same after divorce. Jobs change, salaries fluctuate, and unexpected financial shifts happen to even the most prepared parents. If you're paying or receiving child support in North Carolina and your income has changed significantly, you're probably wondering…
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What Happens to Our Business if We Get Divorced in North Carolina?
If you're a business owner facing divorce in North Carolina, you're likely worried about what will happen to the company you've built. Whether you started your business before marriage, grew it during your relationship, or built it alongside your spouse, the intersection of…
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Thinking About Divorce in the New Year in North Carolina
New Year’s momentum can bring a lot into focus, including a marriage that no longer feels stable, safe, or workable. If divorce is on your mind, you do not have to figure out the next steps alone. A strong plan can help you protect your children, your finances, and your…
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12 Critical Steps Business Owners Must Take During Divorce
A financial, legal, and tax guide for entrepreneurs Business owners facing divorce? Learn 12 critical financial, legal, and tax steps to protect your business, reduce risk, and avoid costly income-tax mistakes. Divorce is never simple - and for a business owner, it can create a…
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Cognitive Benefits of Exercise, How Movement Supports Memory, Focus, and Resilience During Family Legal Matters
By Valerie Grasso (Coach Val), Endurance Coaching and Personal Training When you’re going through separation, divorce, or a custody dispute, your brain can feel like it’s running nonstop. Consistent exercise can support focus, decision-making, and stress regulation, which can…
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Separation in North Carolina 101
What Counts as “Living Apart,” and What Doesn’t If you are thinking about separation in North Carolina, one of the first questions is simple but important: what counts as “living separate and apart”? Getting this wrong can delay your ability to move forward with divorce and can…
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End Of Year Estate Planning Checklist for North Carolina Families
When the calendar year is winding down, many families in Raleigh, Cary, Clayton, Wake Forest, Pinehurst, and across North Carolina are focused on holidays, travel, and tax deadlines. It is also one of the best times to give your estate plan a quick but meaningful checkup, so…
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Holiday Peace Is Possible: A Relationship Coach’s Guide to Reducing Conflict During the Most Emotional Season By Relationship Coach Anna Howerton
For many people in Raleigh, Cary, Clayton, and the surrounding Triangle and surrounding areas, the holiday season feels very different after separation or divorce. The joy, nostalgia, and family traditions are still there, but so are grief, anxiety, and uncertainty about what the future will…
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What to Wear to Court: Presenting Yourself with Confidence in Family Law Cases
When it comes to family law whether it’s a custody hearing, a support modification, or a divorce proceeding - first impressions matter. What you wear to court won’t determine the outcome of your case, but it can influence how you’re perceived by the judge and reflect the…
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Thinking About Divorce After the Holidays? What North Carolina Parents Should Know
Considering separation or divorce after the holidays in North Carolina? Learn why January gets called “divorce month,” plus smart first steps for parents. Every year, once the holiday decorations come down, many couples quietly start asking a hard question: Is it time to end…
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Can I Modify My Child Custody Agreement if My Ex Is Relocating Out of State?
When your ex-partner announces plans to move out of state, your first thought likely centers on your children. How will this affect your time together? Can you prevent the move? What rights do you have as a parent? These questions weigh heavily on parents throughout Wake County…
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Surviving a High-Conflict Divorce: Signs, Stress, and Where to Get Help
Not every divorce is calm. Some separations are marked by hostility, constant arguments, or even unsafe behavior. This is known as a high-conflict divorce, and it can affect not only your legal case but also your health and emotional well-being. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we…
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From Dream to Legacy: Mary Gurganus Celebrates 20 Years of Serving Families
At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we know family law isn’t just about paperwork and courtrooms - it’s about people. It’s about guiding families through some of life’s most emotional chapters with clarity, compassion, and strength. For our founder, Mary Gurganus, that mission has…
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Dating After Divorce: Finding Confidence and Connection in Your Next Chapter
Dating after a divorce can feel both exciting and overwhelming. Whether you’re re-entering the dating world after many years or just starting to think about it, this new chapter is a chance to rediscover yourself and build meaningful connection - with clarity, care, and…
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Dividing Retirement Accounts in Divorce: What You Need to Know About QDROs
Dividing retirement assets can be one of the most complex—and most overlooked—aspects of divorce. Many couples focus on dividing the house or everyday accounts, but forget about the long-term value of pensions, 401(k)s, and other retirement plans. In North Carolina, these assets…
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Unmarried Parents and Custody in North Carolina: Know Your Rights
Parenting comes with enough challenges—understanding your rights as an unmarried parent shouldn’t be one of them. In North Carolina, custody and visitation rights aren’t automatically determined by whether parents are married. But legal steps may be necessary to ensure your…
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Addressing Children With Special Needs In North Carolina Custody Agreements
When parents of a child with special needs face separation or divorce, the emotional challenges multiply. Beyond the typical concerns about parenting time and decision-making authority, these families must consider therapy schedules, specialized education plans, medical…
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How Long Does Divorce Take in North Carolina?
If you're considering divorce in North Carolina, one of the first questions you may have is: How long will this take? While every case is different, North Carolina law outlines a clear timeline for divorce. Understanding the process can help you prepare emotionally,…
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What Is Nesting in Divorce—and Does It Work?
When a family separates, one of the hardest questions is: Where will the children live? For parents focused on minimizing disruption to their kids' lives, nesting—sometimes called birdnesting—offers a creative, short-term solution during or after divorce. But is it a smart…
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Finding Hope During Divorce: Support, Strength & a New Start
Divorce can feel like your world is crumbling—but you are not alone. While the journey may feel overwhelming, it can also be the start of rediscovering your strength, healing your heart, and building a future that reflects who you truly are. As a real estate professional who…
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Social Media and Divorce: What You Post Can Be Used Against You
It’s second nature to share updates online—whether it’s a weekend trip, a new relationship, or even a bad day. But if you’re going through a separation or divorce in North Carolina, it's time to pause before you post. Why? Because what you share on social media can be used…
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Should You Choose Legal Separation Or Divorce in North Carolina?
When your marriage reaches a crossroads, the path forward isn't always clear. In North Carolina, couples facing marital difficulties have two primary legal options: separation or divorce. Each choice carries distinct advantages and challenges that can significantly impact your…
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Estate Tax Changes 2025 | Triangle Estate Lawyers
Estate planning isn’t a one-time task. It’s an ongoing process shaped by personal circumstances and changing laws. Key federal exemptions are expected to change soon. As a result, proactive planning is essential to preserve wealth and avoid unnecessary tax…
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Digital Estate Planning in North Carolina: Tools for a Smarter Future
Estate planning has always been about preparation—planning ahead so that your wishes, assets, and loved ones are protected. But as the legal industry evolves, so does the way we approach that preparation. At Triangle Estate Lawyers in Raleigh, we’re committed to helping…
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Estate Planning with Emotional Intelligence
Estate planning with emotional intelligence helps families make thoughtful, values-driven decisions—not just financial ones. At Triangle Estate Lawyers, we know that effective estate planning is about more than just documents. It’s a deeply personal process shaped by …
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How Does Domestic Violence Affect Divorce and Custody Decisions in North Carolina?
Domestic violence casts a long shadow over family relationships, and when marriages affected by abuse come to an end, the legal side of things can become particularly complex. In North Carolina, courts take allegations of domestic violence very seriously, understanding that…
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Helping Children Adjust After Separation: What Parents Can Do
Separation and divorce are life-changing—not just for you, but for your children as well. While adults may understand the reasons behind the change, kids are often left feeling confused, anxious, or even responsible. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we've seen how vital it is for…
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How Does the Experience of a Divorce Lawyer Impact Case Outcomes?
Not all divorces are created equal—and neither are all divorce attorneys. When you're navigating the legal, financial, and emotional complexities of separation, the experience of your lawyer plays a critical role in shaping the outcome. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we've seen…
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Back-to-School Co-Parenting Tips: Making Custody Schedules Work During the School Year
Back-to-school season can be exciting—and stressful—for co-parents navigating shared custody. From bus schedules to homework routines, balancing your custody agreement with your child's academic needs takes planning and flexibility. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we help families…
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Why Hiring a Lawyer for Professionals Is Critical in Divorce Cases
When you’ve spent years building your career as a doctor, lawyer, executive, or entrepreneur, protecting what you’ve earned matters—especially during a divorce. At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we understand the distinct challenges professionals often face. If you're navigating a…
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The Role of a Guardian ad Litem in Child Custody Cases: Your Child's Voice in Court
When parents can't agree on custody arrangements, North Carolina courts sometimes appoint a Guardian Ad Litem to represent the child's best interests. If you're facing a custody dispute in Wake County, Johnston County, or surrounding areas, understanding what a Guardian ad Litem…
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Estate Planning for College Athletes in the NIL Era: What to Know
The NCAA’s Name, Image, and Likeness (NIL) policy has opened the door for college athletes to earn income through sponsorships, endorsements, and personal branding. As student-athletes take on these new financial opportunities, many are experiencing significant income for the…
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Divorce With Dignity: A Better Way to Move Forward
At Triangle Divorce Lawyers, we understand that divorce is one of life’s most difficult transitions. But it doesn’t have to be messy, bitter, or destructive. That’s why we offer an approach we call Divorce with Dignity a er, more respectful way to move forward while protecting…
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Let’s Talk About Alimony: What You Should Know Before (or During) Divorce
If you're going through a divorce — or even just thinking about it — you've probably heard the word alimony come up. And if you're like most people, you might be wondering: What exactly is it? Who pays? How is it decided? You’re not alone — alimony is one of the most…
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Mother's Day and Divorce: A Time for Reflection, Self-Care, and Healing
Mother's Day is a special occasion to celebrate the incredible role mothers play in the lives of their children. However, for mothers going through a divorce, it can also be a time of mixed emotions. If you’ve recently gone through or are currently navigating a divorce, Mother's…
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The Impact of Child Abuse: How a Family Law Firm in NC Can Help
April is Child Abuse Awareness Month, a time to reflect on the impact of child abuse and raise awareness about how we can protect the most vulnerable members of our community—our children. Child abuse, in any form, can have devastating consequences on a child’s physical,…
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Skincare and Stress: Navigating Divorce While Caring for Your Skin
By Marcella Stewart, Mary Kay Independent Sales Director Divorce is one of life’s most stressful experiences. It’s emotionally draining, physically exhausting, and often overwhelming. During this difficult time, self-care is more important than ever—including skincare. As a Mary…
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The Value of Prenups and Postnups: Protecting Your Future Together
When it comes to marriage, few people like to think about the possibility of things not working out. However, prenups (prenuptial agreements) and postnups (postnuptial agreements) are practical tools that can provide peace of mind and financial protection in case of unforeseen…
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Navigating Retirement Accounts and Divorce: What You Need to Know in North Carolina
Divorce is never just about separating lives—it’s about dividing the financial future you built together. Retirement accounts, often one of the most significant assets in a marriage, can be a major point of contention. Understanding how these accounts are divided if you’re…
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Understanding the Impact of Social Media on Divorce Proceedings in North Carolina
Could a single tweet or Facebook post influence the outcome of your divorce? With how much information is online these days, your posts can significantly affect legal proceedings, especially in divorce cases. Sharing personal moments or opinions on social media might seem…
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The Rise of “Gray Divorce" and the Importance of Having the Right Support
While divorce has always been a life-altering event, for those in their later years, the challenges can be unique and particularly complex. If you or someone you know is facing a divorce later in life, it's crucial to understand why support is essential and how having the right…
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Understanding Alienation of Affection in North Carolina: A Family Law Overview
Family law is filled with complex issues that affect individuals and families in various ways. One of the more unique and sometimes controversial aspects of family law in North Carolina is the concept of Alienation of Affection. Unlike most states in the U.S., North Carolina…
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Domestic Violence During the Super Bowl in North Carolina: What You Need to Know
The Super Bowl is one of the most highly anticipated sporting events in the world. Millions of fans gather around television screens to cheer for their teams, indulge in halftime performances, and enjoy the iconic commercials. It's a day that unites friends, families, and…
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Essential Points In Understanding Alimony In North Carolina
How does alimony impact your future after divorce? This financial support can profoundly affect your standard of living and stability during a challenging transition. Understanding the nuances of alimony in North Carolina can help you make informed decisions and protect your…
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Raleigh Divorce Lawyer Kathleen Murphy Is Regular Guest on Nancy Grace
A Microsoft executive and father of four was gunned down in 2022. It was a murder-for-hire hit orchestrated by his ex-wife with whom he was in a bitter custody battle. Raleigh divorce attorney Kathleen Murphy talked about the case on Nancy Grace’s podcast, “Crime…
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Divorce Mediation in North Carolina: When Is It the Right Choice?
Divorce is never easy. It’s a deeply personal journey, often filled with emotional, financial, and logistical challenges. But what if there was a way to navigate this life-changing event without the stress and expense of a courtroom battle? Divorce mediation offers an…
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When Personal Injury and Family Law Collide: Divorce and Settlements
At first glance, family law and personal injury law may seem like unrelated areas of practice. However, when a serious injury occurs, these legal realms often intersect in profound and complex ways. An injury can ripple through a family’s financial and emotional landscape,…
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What To Ask When Hiring a Divorce Lawyer in North Carolina
Whether you’re looking forward to your divorce or are facing it with a heavy heart, you need an experienced divorce lawyer to guide you through the process. The right lawyer will protect your interests, assist you with child custody, and ensure a fair division of property…
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Honoring Excellence: Mary Gurganus Named to North Carolina's Family Law Power List
We are thrilled to announce that Mary Gurganus, the Founder and Senior Attorney of Triangle Divorce Lawyers, has been recognized by North Carolina Lawyers Weekly on its distinguished Family Law Power List. This accolade is reserved for legal professionals who exemplify…
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Navigating Mental Health Challenges in Substance Use Recovery: Insights from Desiree King of Welwynn
Substance use is often accompanied by complex mental health challenges, making the path to recovery a multifaceted journey. According to Desiree King from Welwynn, understanding the mental health disorders that frequently co-occur with substance use is key to providing effective…
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How Child Support in North Carolina Works: Key Points Explained
Divorce can be one of life’s greatest challenges. If children are involved, it dramatically raises the emotional, practical, and financial consequences. Whether you’ve started the divorce process or are considering separating, you may have questions about child support in North…
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Navigating Divorce as an Adult Child: Balancing Emotions and Protecting a Parent
By: Hannah Hardy Divorce can be a tumultuous experience for families, and when it happens later in life, adult children often find themselves in an unexpected emotional maelstrom. One of the most challenging aspects can be the instinct to protect one parent over the other.…
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Child Custody Laws in NC: What Parents Need To Know
Divorcing parents often fear the child custody process. They worry that the separation will wreak havoc on their child's routine and stability. But child custody laws in NC seek to facilitate an arrangement that places your child's best interests as the highest priority.…
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Therapy and Divorce: The Role of Therapy in Healing and Moving Forward
Divorce can be overwhelming and emotionally draining, but you don’t have to face it alone. Therapy can be a crucial part of healing and moving forward. Whether it's individual, couples, family, or group therapy, professional support can help you navigate the complexities of…
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Understanding Pet Custody in North Carolina
When couples in North Carolina decide to part ways, one of the most emotionally charged aspects of the separation can be determining who gets to keep the family pet. While the law has clear guidelines for child custody, pet custody falls into a more complex and less defined…
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Beware of Phishing Scams During Divorce: Protect Your Emotions and Finances
Divorce is a tumultuous time filled with emotional and financial challenges. It's a period when individuals are vulnerable, making them prime targets for various scams. One particularly insidious type of fraud is phishing, where scammers manipulate individuals into divulging…
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Choosing Your Divorce Lawyer in North Carolina: Key Factors To Consider
Choosing your divorce lawyer in North Carolina is one of the most crucial decisions in divorce proceedings. A family law attorney in NC will provide legal guidance, represent you in court, and offer professional support during one of the most challenging times in your life. But…
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Navigating Divorce as a Father: Guidance and Resources for a Smooth Transition
Divorce is never easy, but it can be especially challenging for fathers. The team at Triangle Divorce Lawyers has helped numerous fathers navigate the complexities of divorce over the years, and we understand the unique emotional and legal hurdles you face. This blog aims to…
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Navigating Divorce as an Adult Child: Balancing Emotions and Protecting a Parent
Divorce can be a tumultuous experience for families, and when it happens later in life, adult children often find themselves in an unexpected emotional maelstrom. One of the most challenging aspects can be the instinct to protect one parent over the other. Navigating these…
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Navigating Divorce: Insights and Guidance
Divorce is rarely easy. It's a significant life event that brings about a whirlwind of emotions, from grief and anger to relief and hope for the future. As divorce attorneys, we understand that the legal process is just one aspect of divorce; the emotional journey is equally…
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Navigating the Financial Landscape of Divorce: Strategies and Considerations
Divorce is a multifaceted process that encompasses emotional, legal, and financial aspects. While the legal dimensions often take center stage, the financial implications of divorce are equally significant. In this blog post, we'll explore the financial aspects of divorce,…
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Celebrating Diversity: The Modern Family Landscape
The days of families fitting certain criteria are long gone. Diversity is an important aspect of the modern family structure and is worth celebrating, especially during observances like the International Day of Families in May. Although diverse family structures are part of…
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Choosing the Right Legal Path: Understanding Your Options During Divorce
Divorce is a complex and challenging process that involves various legal considerations. One of the most important decisions you'll make during divorce is choosing the right legal path to pursue. In this blog post, we'll explore the different legal options available during…
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Navigating Custody Battles: A Guide for Mothers
Nothing about divorce is easy. You may be dividing up assets, dealing with a loss of income, and struggling with feelings of loneliness. But if you have kids, navigating the ensuing custody battles is the biggest challenge you’ll likely face. In honor of Mother’s Day, we have…
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Legal Considerations After Divorce
Finalizing a divorce formally dissolves your marriage, but it also sets off a cascade of legal implications you’ll be navigating for some time afterwards. From dividing up assets to arranging child custody, this complex new landscape can feel overwhelming initially. As your…
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Stepparent Rights and Responsibilities
Becoming a step-parent brings joy and challenges. You gain a spouse and instant family, taking on a parenting role with step-children. It can be gratifying. But it also comes with complex legal and emotional dynamics to navigate. When you marry someone with kids from a previous…
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Navigating the Choppy Waters: Handling Investments During Divorce
Going through a divorce can be an incredibly difficult and stressful time. On top of the emotional toll, there are many complex financial and legal matters to navigate, especially when it comes to dividing up investments and assets accumulated during the marriage. This process…
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Separation vs. Divorce in North Carolina: What Residents Need to Know
In a nutshell, divorce permanently severs all legal ties between husbands and wives. Marriage dissolution is always a court process. Legal separation is usually an informal process. Spouses set some ground rules that help them to live separate lives without getting a judge…
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The Costs of Divorce: What North Carolina Residents Should Know
The average cost of a divorce in North Carolina varies on the details of the case - on one side, there are high net worth divorces that often take years to resolve. On the other side, a divorce with minimal assets and no children will be relatively affordable. For your specific…
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Prepping for a Property Division in a North Carolina Divorce
Premarital agreements are usually the best way to prepare for a divorce property division. Like most other jurisdictions, North Carolina is an equitable division state. The judge must divide marital property equitably so the divorce is not an unfair financial burden on either…
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Different Types of Divorce in North Carolina
Although the divorce rate in the United States has leveled off in recent years, it’s still over 40% for first marriages. The divorce rate for subsequent marriages may be as high as 60%. All marriage dissolutions involve emotional and financial issues regardless of the type of…
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Alimony After Remarriage in North Carolina: What Residents Should Know
Alimony—a financial payment usually made monthly from the higher-earning spouse to the lower-earning spouse—is sometimes awarded in North Carolina divorces. Typically, alimony is temporary, meaning that it goes on for a specified period of time before ending. In some cases,…
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Child Custody FAQs for North Carolina Residents
Child custody is a confusing, complicated, and emotionally fraught process that no parent ever wants to put their child through. To obtain the outcome that is in your and your child's best interests, you need to work with an experienced Raleigh child custody attorney who can…
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Top Qualities of a Divorce Attorney: A Guide for North Carolina Residents
Divorce is a stressful, time-consuming, and expensive (the average divorce costs $15,000 per person) experience. It makes sense that you would take your time to choose an attorney carefully. When interviewing divorce attorneys in North Carolina, it is important to keep in mind…
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Child Support In North Carolina: What You Need To Know
Child support is a crucial financial tool for millions of custodial parents across the country. As the child’s primary parent, you have a considerable burden on your shoulders in time, energy, and money. From toys and diapers to educational costs and housing expenses, these…
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How to File for Divorce in North Carolina
For spouses in North Carolina considering getting a divorce, the process can seem rather daunting. Between work, taking care of the kids, and other social and professional responsibilities, working to develop an understanding of the divorce laws in their state can inadvertently…
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How Is Property Divided In A North Carolina Divorce?
In North Carolina, residents take pride in their work. The money they earn in exchange for their time and skills allows them to build capital and make purchases and investments that can greatly enhance their quality of life, as well as that of their families. When couples decide…
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What Are The Top 5 Child Custody Factors in North Carolina?
Overall, child custody and parenting time orders must be in the best interests of the child. Most good parents agree with that general principle. However, sometimes even great parents disagree on specific points. To help translate this rather obscure principle into everyday…
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Do I Need A Divorce Attorney If My Spouse And I Agree On Everything?
If you are preparing to end your marriage, you are certainly not alone. According to data from the NC State Center for Health Statistics, nearly 3,000 divorces happen each year in Wake County alone. Most people want to finalize their divorce in the most efficient,…
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Divorce: When Do We Create a Schedule for Our Kids?
Creating a schedule for your children and organizing your co-parenting plan is a critical part of a divorce. During this process, you may feel like you are neglecting your children and not giving them the proper attention they need and deserve. Depending on the relationship…
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Helpful Financial Tips on How to Prepare for a Divorce
During a divorce it can seem like your mind is scattered all over the place; you’ll make hundreds of critical decisions that impact how smoothly your divorce goes and your future beyond. These decisions affect not only you but your children and ex-spouse as well. The area of…
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4 Tips to Help Your Teen with Your Divorce
Helping a teen cope during your divorce is a unique challenge. Older children are more likely to be rebellious and keep their feelings hidden, and of course, they are going through their own things at this stage. Typically, the younger the child, the more likely they are to…
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How To Separate Finances Before Your Divorce
Sometimes divorce is inevitable. Depending on your relationship, detangling your finances while you still live together may be wise. If you and your spouse both agree a divorce is necessary, coming to terms with financial separations and arrangements as soon as possible will…
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How To Choose a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst
A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst will act as the financial expert on your divorce team. The CDFA is the person responsible for creating a comprehensive financial analysis and projection that you and your divorce attorney will propose in a divorce settlement offer. Your…
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Divorce is a split — and not just between you and your partner. The healing process for you, even if you’re the one who initiated the divorce, will take time. In order to emotionally let go after a divorce, you must make a commitment to fall in love with yourself and learn…
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Divorce: When Do We Create a Schedule for Our Kids?
Creating a schedule for your children and organizing your co-parenting plan is a critical part of a divorce. During this process, you may feel like you are neglecting your children and not giving them the proper attention they need and deserve. Depending on the relationship…
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Helpful Financial Tips on How to Prepare for a Divorce
During a divorce it can seem like your mind is scattered all over the place; you’ll make hundreds of critical decisions that impact how smoothly your divorce goes and your future beyond. These decisions affect not only you but your children and ex-spouse as well. The area of…
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Dividing a Business During a Divorce
Going through a divorce is stressful. You must set up new living arrangements, decide child custody, and divide assets and debt. If one or both partners own a business, that’s one more element to manage. Dividing a business can be confusing and tedious. After all, a house is…
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What Steps Do I Need to Take to Keep My Children Top Priority During Divorce?
Divorce is extremely stressful and can take a toll on you as an individual, but more importantly, it can take a toll on your children. During l this challenging time, so many questions may be running through your head about your children and how they will fare. Here are some…
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How to Get My Name Off Our Marital Property if My Partner Won’t Sell?
During a divorce, a couple’s most significant financial decision is what to do with the house or other property. In some cases, one partner may remain there, though that usually means buying the other one out. Many couples choose to sell the home instead. However, if your…
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Does Divorce Affect My Ability to Collect Survivor Benefits?
During divorce, many people have questions about how the separation will impact their ability to receive survivor benefits, including pensions and Social Security. For someone who may have relied on disability or Social Security to supplement the family income, it is vital that…
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Sometimes getting divorced is a mutual decision between you and your spouse, and the process runs (somewhat) smoothly. In many cases, the decision to divorce is one-sided. In those situations, the partner who is unwilling will eventually go along with the process — even if he or…
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What Are The Chances I Will Be Awarded More Than 50/50 Physical Custody?
In North Carolina, there is no presumption determining that the courts will rule more in favor of one parent over the other in a custody dispute. The primary factor taken into consideration for this situation is the “best interest” of the child. North Carolina introduced a new…
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What Provisions Can You Make for a Partner with a Disability after Divorce?
Divorce is different for everyone because each person has his or her own life challenges. In some cases, doing what’s best for you conflicts with what’s best for your partner. And when getting a divorce, if your partner is living with a disability, you may bear the burden of…
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Can We Divorce While Keeping Our Own Money?
Finances are one of the most significant concerns for most people when they divorce. North Carolina is an Equitable Distribution state. That means if the court decides how to split your money, the division will be roughly equal — but not necessarily what either partner considers…
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What’s in a Separation Agreement and What Happens to it after Divorce?
Sometimes it is best to separate from your spouse before you go full speed ahead into your divorce. Living separately for a while can help you to figure out if that is what is best for you both. In some states, such as North Carolina, it is mandatory to live separately for a…
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Paying Your Child’s College Tuition After Divorce
As a divorced parent with children seeking a higher education, you may have concerns regarding who will be funding and how to save for your child’s tuition. In North Carolina, child support guidelines do not take into consideration college and university expenses. This is…
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Organize - Make Room To Begin Your New Chapter After Divorce
Although your the end of your marriage may feel like your life is over, you might see it as a new beginning. Whether you wanted to divorce or not, this change can be an opportunity to reinvent yourself. However, if you feel like you don’t know where to begin, try cleaning!…
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Do I Need to Hire a Lawyer for a Separation Agreement?
Divorce is a process, and it can be an expensive one. A lot of people ask our team whether they need a lawyer. In most cases, the answer is yes. Recently someone also asked about whether it’s necessary to hire a lawyer during the one-year separation period required by North…
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How to Get Through the Painful Process of Divorce
Divorce can come quickly and out of nowhere, especially if it’s unwanted in your mind. You have to deal with many changes, emotionally and physically. It can feel overwhelming and as though you don’t know where to turn. Take a deep breath, and try to think as clearly as…
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3 Ways to Manage as a Single-Income Family after Divorce
A divorce means adjusting to a single income, even if that income includes child support or spousal support. We’ve talked recently about budgeting in advance, so you know what to expect, but if you’re struggling to figure out life on a lower income, here are some…
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Warning: Think Now about Your Financial Life after Divorce
One of the biggest mistakes some women make in divorce is keeping the house. But part of the reason they do that is they make the other big mistake: not thinking about their financial life after divorce. We’re not picking on women. Studies show women are more often the…
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5 Essential Things to Consider about Separation in North Carolina
Divorce laws are different in every state, but in North Carolina, there is a “no-fault divorce” policy, which means that neither spouse has to be proven “guilty.” In other words, no one has to give any proof that one person caused the marriage to end. To file for divorce, the…
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Divorce FAQ: Should I Get the House Appraised?
Should I get the house appraised? It’s a frequent question in our monthly divorce workshops. During a divorce, you and your spouse will divide most of your assets. While many personal items may be easy to label “yours” and “mine” (e.g., an inherited antique vanity, a prized…
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Beginning Again After Divorce Later in Life
When your life has been a certain way for many years, adjusting to a new routine can be difficult. After a divorce, life will inevitably change as you shift from a shared life to a life of your own. Life after divorce will not be easy, but it is possible to begin…
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Navigating Child Custody When Your Kids Are Teenagers
Divorces are difficult for spouses, but they can be especially difficult for children to endure. Watching mom and dad argue can be draining, even if parents only want what’s best for their kids. Teenagers are old enough to have a better understanding of the situation but are not…
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Financial Planning for Parents After Divorce
Many changes come with a divorce, and adjustments to your finances are part of that. Although you and your ex-spouse are no longer together, this does not mean you’re left to handle your family’s financial hurdles alone. Despite any animosity that may be present between you and…
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How to Deal with a High-Conflict Spouse
Even for the most amicable couples, separation is tough. Sometimes, both spouses decide that divorce is in their best interest; other times, one party may feel blindsided, or even dispute the idea completely. Regardless, divorce raises tensions, and these increased stress levels…
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How Your Spouse’s Behavior Can Affect Child Custody
When a couple shares children, custody agreements can become a problematic part of the divorce process. In some cases, couples reach an arrangement on their own, but not always. In some cases, custody battles must be taken to court, where an outcome is determined as a result of…
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Asset Division in Divorce: How Does It Work?
From the time we were children, we’ve all had trouble with asset division. How do I split this piece of cake evenly? My friend and I both want the same toy, but who should get it? Of course, dividing up a piece of cake is nothing compared to asset division during a divorce. The…
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What Does Life Look Like After Divorce?
After a long-term marriage, divorce can often seem like the end of a life you once knew. You began your marriage planning for forever, but what you thought was permanent turned out to be temporary. While this can seem like the end, it can also be viewed as a new…
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Do I Need a Separation Agreement to Get Divorced in NC?
Many couples choose to live separately for a “trial period” before choosing divorce. If you find yourself in a similar position, you may want to consider a legal separation. A separation agreement is a legally binding agreement between spouses which lays out the terms of…
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Age Doesn’t Negate Alimony in Gray Divorce
Getting divorced after years of marriage is no longer unheard of. “Gray Divorce,” or divorce between couples over the age of 50, became increasingly common between 1990 and 2010. One of our divorce workshop attendees recently asked about alimony and other financial…
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How to Get Divorced Emotionally
Separation is emotionally draining for all parties, but it can be even harder for those who didn’t see it coming. If a divorce was your spouse’s idea, you might have difficulty separating emotionally from him or her, especially if your relationship was fairly long. When so many…
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Divorce Question: Can We Legally Separate and Live in the Same House?
If you and your spouse are considering divorce, legal separation is the first step in the official process. Separation can look very different depending on how amicable your situation. Occasionally, couples want to separate while living under the same roof to save money. If…
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4 Tips for Financial Independence During Divorce
A divorce can prove to be a tremendous financial burden. Many find it difficult to manage the cost of mediators, separate living spaces, and other aspects of separation. If your divorce is occurring after several decades of marriage, you may have a harder time untangling your…
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What to Expect: How Divorce Affects Adult Children
While going through a divorce can have an impact on kids of all ages, the effect it has on your adult children can be unique. If your children are older, they likely have a greater understanding of the situation, which could make the situation both easier to comprehend yet more…
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5 Myths About Divorce Court You May Have Heard
Nervous about an upcoming divorce court appearance? With so many exaggerated court scenes featured in today’s television shows and movies, how could you not be a little afraid? However, divorce court may not be what you’re expecting. Here are some common myths about divorce…
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Protecting Your Personal Finances During Divorce
When going through a divorce, finances can cause a lot of stress. Divorce itself can be expensive, and then you’re left to live on one income. In some cases, one party must also pay child support to the other. These are just a few of the unexpected impacts that divorce can have…
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What “stigmas” will I face as a divorcee?
There will always be people who disagree with divorce. They could be your parents, friends, coworkers, or even strangers. These people have reasons why they are anti-separation, but regardless of their beliefs, divorces are just part of reality. Whether it’s because of an…
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Divorce Question: What are My Rights if My Spouse Leaves after Decades of Marriage?
Divorce is a stressful experience no matter the duration of your marriage. Usually, a more extended marriage means more time for a couple to accumulate marital assets. Your children, home(s), finances, are just a few of the factors that may be impacted throughout this legal…
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Splitting Assets: Who Gets Our Gifts and Personal Belongings?
Dividing all the things you own during a divorce can be messy. While property and the retirement accounts are worth discussing, sometimes it’s the “little” things that cause the most concern. After all, when you split households, who gets the dishes and other household items can…
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What Stay-At-Home Moms Can Expect During Divorce
Women who elect to stay at home to raise children face unique challenges during divorce. But that’s not to say they face a hopeless situation. A lot depends on what the partner is earning, along with the household debts and expenses. If a lawyer tells you what you…
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Can You Get a Divorce Without Hiring Two Attorneys?
Divorce can be an expensive undertaking. We’ve talked before about how much a divorce may cost, and that’s before you figure out your post-divorce budget. Some clients have asked if they can save time (and money) by hiring the same attorney. If you and your partner are on…
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How Will My Spouse’s Affair Affect My Divorce in North Carolina?
Despite Hollywood’s flair for affairs, cheating is not the top reason for divorce. However, affairs are certainly a common cause of divorce and, whether you cheated or your spouse did, it can affect your legal split. An affair is called marital misconduct in North Carolina.…
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Insights for Dealing with a Narcissist During Divorce
During a divorce, the feelings we once had for our partner twist and often turn into something ugly. We may think or call them bad names. Some partners probably deserve this treatment, though of course, others do not. One label often tossed out during divorce is a…
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What Will Happen if My Spouse Stops Paying the Mortgage?
Mortgage and credit questions abound when you’re going through a divorce. Splitting from your spouse legally and financially requires several steps, especially if you own a house. Many couples choose to sell the house; often one partner cannot carry the burden of mortgage…
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Married in a Different Country: How Do I Divorce in the U.S.?
Whether you and your partner married overseas in a destination wedding or unexpectedly eloped while traveling, the rules of divorce aren’t too different for those who get married in another country. Marriage is a state issue, not a federal, so the laws governing divorce vary…
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How Does Psychological Domestic Violence Affect Divorce?
The question about how psychological domestic violence affects divorce came up in one of our workshops this year, and we felt it important to share some thoughts. First, domestic violence is an urgent concern. If you are being abused either physically or verbally, it is…
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Is There a Best Time to Consult a Divorce Attorney?
Most people know that if you’re thinking about divorce, a lawyer is one of your first calls. But some of our participants have asked, “When is the best time to consult an attorney?” In North Carolina, you must be legally separated for one full year before a divorce can go…
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What Will Happen to a Newly Purchased Property in Divorce?
Many couples going through a divorce own a home, and figuring out how to divide that or what to do with it can present challenges. But what if you just purchased that home or property? The answer depends. If only one partner owns the home, it is his or hers to manage.…
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In Divorce, You Get Half. But Half of What?
Not long ago in one of our divorce workshops, someone asked the simple (and yet complicated) question: “What do I get half of?” During a divorce, a couple will split their assets. These assets are things you own, such as your cars and your house, plus the money in your bank…
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Signs Your Children Need Help after Divorce
Children are one of our biggest worries during divorce. We asked some of our therapist presenters to share with us: what are some signs people should watch for in children after divorce, signs that indicate the child might need some help adjusting? Here are their…
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Why Mediation May Be The Right Answer For You
We find that a lot of our workshop participants are under the impression that they have to go through the court system to settle their divorce case. This is not true. There are other options, such as mediation, which gives you a bit more control. Mediation is a method used in…
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How Can I Legally Prove Marital Misconduct?
North Carolina recognizes marital misconduct as a reason for legal separation; it can also leverage the post-separation support. No matter what form of misconduct your spouse may have committed (or still be committing), you may want to gather some evidence to aid your…
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When Can My Child Decide with Whom They Want to Live?
Divorce brings about the need to make many decisions, and none is more important than the issue of child custody. Many people believe there is a “magic age” when children can choose the parent with whom they prefer to live — or have the right to make that choice. In North…
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Who Pays for the Divorce?
The cost of divorce is something a lot of people worry about. You already know the costs will mount as you look for a new place to live and begin paying separate bills. How will you get the money to pay the divorce attorney's fees? Also, there are other professionals to consider…
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Co-Parenting: The Pros and Cons of Nesting Agreements
Nesting agreements between parents going through divorce are becoming more common. Also known as “birds nesting,” this arrangement is one approach for parents concerned about how their children will handle the myriad changes divorce brings to family life. Here are some pros and…
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How to Keep the Kids Out of Your Divorce
Kids are often the biggest concern people list when discussing divorce. How will they be affected? What can we do to make it easier? There’s a good reason to be concerned: children caught in the middle of their parents’ divorce fare far worse, with more emotional problems,…
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What Is A Dependent Spouse In North Carolina?
Alimony is not as common as it once was. Alimony might be awarded during the separation period (temporary alimony), but there is no guarantee of that or any alimony following a divorce. In North Carolina, only a dependent spouse is eligible to receive alimony following a…
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How to Tell Someone You Want a Divorce
You’ve been thinking about divorce for months. You’ve attended our divorce workshop in Raleigh. You’ve spoken to a divorce attorney, a financial advisor, maybe a therapist. After a lot of soul searching, you decide yes, divorce is the right path. Now, it’s time to separate from…
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A Case for Child Support When Parents Have 50/50 Custody
Child custody and child support prompt plenty of questions. Decisions surrounding the children are one of the most important parts of divorce and tend to cause the most conflict. We heard this excellent question recently at our Raleigh divorce workshop. Because it’s a frequently…
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Divorce Questions: I Got Angry. Should I Be Worried about Custody?
During our Raleigh divorce workshops, we take questions from participants who are thinking about or are going through a divorce. Custody questions are among the most common, like this one: Q: I got worked up to the point of throwing things at my spouse. Will this affect…
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How Do I Get My Financial Records If My Spouse Controls The Logins?
During the divorce process, you’ll need to list your individual assets and debts, credit card balances, income information, and possibly even a monthly budget. Some states also require past tax returns and W-2s. Gathering the Financial DataOne route to get this…
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How Can I Convince My Spouse to Divorce Amicably?
Divorce on peaceful terms is far easier and will certainly cost less than a divorce full of contention. An amicable divorce is also far better if you have children. After all, you’re going to continue to be involved somewhat in each other’s lives. But if your spouse doesn’t want…
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What Should I Do If My Spouse Accuses Me Of Cheating?
Adultery is a serious thing, one of the reasons a marriage may end in divorce. But what if your spouse or partner accuses you of cheating when you are completely innocent? This will play out in two ways: In scenario one, your partner will realize his or her error and…
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How Are Student Loans Handled During A Divorce?
During divorce, you must split your assets as well as your debts. While we’ve covered various ways to divide debts, students loans can be particularly frustrating for couples. Must both of you pay for one person’s student loans? According to an article in the Wall…
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Supporting Your Teenager During Separation and Divorce
The stress of divorce strikes everyone at one time or another during the process, but teenagers can compound the emotional upheaval at home. As one therapist puts it, teenagers are in the middle of figuring out their identities as humans, and divorce throws a wrench…
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3 Common Child Custody Questions
Child custody is one of the two biggest stressors during divorce. (Money is the other one.) That’s why it’s often the source of most questions asked during our Raleigh divorce workshop each month. While of every situation is different, we rounded up three questions from our…
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How To Co-Parent When You're Not On Talking Terms
Divorce means separating from your partner, but if you have children, that person will always be part of your life. If you and your partner can barely speak to each other without anger, co-parenting is going to be difficult. And if your ex is unreasonable or bent on making your…
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What Is Collaborative Divorce?
Collaborative divorce is one way to approach the divorce process. While this approach is not for everyone, if both partners are on good terms, it can make divorce as easy as possible. What is Collaborative Divorce? Collaborative divorce is basically what it sounds like:…
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How to Make a Case for Spousal Support
Spousal support, also known as alimony, is not guaranteed, even if you do not work outside the home. If you plan to request spousal support, either for the short-term or long-term, you’ll have to make your case for it. But how? Strategize. First,…
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Five Ways To Manage The Stress From A Divorce
Divorce is stressful. Saying so feels like platitudes, an obvious statement gone stale from too many repeats. But the stress of divorce is unique, one of those situations you cannot fully understand until you’ve lived through it. Suddenly, you’re in this club and only people who…
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Can a Spouse Change the Beneficiary on Insurance and Retirement Accounts?
Insurance benefits and IRAs or other retirement money are some of the most important assets discussed during divorce. The beneficiary of these assets is an important part of post-divorce proceedings, and it’s important for you and your ex to change those if you wish, once the…
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Can I Get an Annulment Instead of a Divorce?
Couples who have not been married very long may be wondering about annulment. Annulment sounds like a shortcut, an easier way to break off the marriage and start over. But annulment isn’t necessarily the easy path some imagine, and not everyone qualifies. Here is what you need…
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Is an IRA Joint Property In A Divorce?
An IRA and other retirement money is often a concern during divorce. If you both have retirement accounts, you may feel less worried. However, women who haven’t worked outside the home in many years do not have their own retirement accounts and are understandably nervous about…
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6 Tips for the Long-Distance Parent After Divorce
Divorce brings a lot of change, including, of course, one spouse moving to a new home. For children, seeing their parents live separately is hard enough. But if one parent moves to a new city or state, that separation feels even worse. Just as you no doubt will miss your…
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Grandparents Rights After A Divorce In North Carolina
Divorce brings up a lot of questions about child support and child custody. The partners who are splitting bear most of the weight while making these decisions, but there is one group of people who may also feel concerned: grandparents. Grandparents’ Custodial Rights If…
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What Happens to an Inheritance During a Divorce?
Splitting up money and assets during divorce rarely seems fair to either party. And if you have inherited a large sum of money from a relative or friend, you might feel even more concerned about the division: will you have to share that inheritance with your…
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How to Protect Your Child's Self-Esteem During and After Divorce
Divorce is not usually an easy choice for either partner, but both often worry most about their children. At least one study shows more than 80% of children would rather see their fighting parents divorce, and those who experience it realize later it was for the best. Still,…
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Signs Your Spouse is Hiding Assets During Divorce
Call it a feeling. You suspect your spouse is hiding things from you. If you and your partner have decided to divorce, he or she may be hiding assets so they aren’t counted for child support or alimony. According to the National Endowment for Financial Education, about 31…
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Pitfalls To Avoid When Dividing Retirement Assets
As you and your partner divorce, you’ll be dividing up debts and assets. Retirement assets usually cause the most confusion. In some cases, only one person is contributing to those accounts, so some assume that asset belongs to the person who contributed. If both spouses work…
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4 Signs You Might Need To See a Therapist After Divorce
Divorce is a wrenching split, a complete interruption in your life and a shift from a path you expected to walk until death do us part. Experiencing a wide range of emotions from anger and sadness to guilt or even relief is perfectly normal. Keying your ex-spouse’s car is…
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Can My Spouse Sue Me For Abandoning My Marriage?
When a couple decides to divorce, one of them typically moves out. In North Carolina, that’s a requirement. You must live apart, separated, for one full year before you can even file for divorce. But many North Carolina residents have also heard that if you move out,…
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Selling Or Staying In Your Home After A Divorce - What You Need To Know
The house is one of the biggest discussions in divorce. Homeownership plays a large factor in a couple’s finances and can mean a great deal to a partner who is financially dependent on another. In addition, the home may hold strong emotional meaning for one or both spouses.…
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Will I Have To Pay Alimony?
Alimony is one of the aspects of divorce that concerns a lot of our workshop attendees. Paying money to someone you no longer love feels like being kicked when you are down. And if you’re not sure how you are going to make ends meet, the idea of paying someone is definitely…
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What Documents Will I Need For My Divorce?
Divorce requires paperwork. Unfortunately, gathering up the paperwork and information you need can be difficult, especially if you’re not the person who manages those documents and accounts. Still, if you are thinking about divorce or have already decided on divorce, there…
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How to Tell Friends and Family about Your Divorce
Once you and your spouse decide to get a divorce, you’ll have to figure out when and where to tell people. Of course telling the children is the biggest hurdle, but telling friends and family about your divorce is difficult and can cause additional stress. There are no rules…
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How To Get Full Custody Of Your Children
Custody of the children is often one of the most contentious points in divorce. Unless one party fully agrees to give up custody, it can be a battle and will no doubt drive up the cost of your divorce. So if you want full custody in North Carolina of the children, the first…
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Protecting Your Children During A Divorce
Divorce is an epic split, often resulting in sadness, bitterness, anger and more. With all the rage, guilt and other terrible feelings, it’s easy for a couple to fight over just about everything, including the children. But what happens to those children as they see their…
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Divorce Questions: How do I force them out of the house?
Divorce can be messy. That’s probably why our Raleigh Divorce Workshop is often asked this question: “How do I force them out of the house?” In North Carolina, you must live separately for one year before you can file for divorce. So at least one of you needs to move out. In…
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Can I Buy A New House After A Divorce?
In our monthly divorce workshop, we hear a lot of the same concerns, fears, and questions. Divorce is a confusing time, and many people experiencing it have similar concerns. One our most frequently asked questions is about the house. Can I keep it? What about my credit? And…
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Can I Start Dating Before My Divorce Is Finalized?
People often ask friends, family, and therapists when is the best time to date again after divorce. No matter the answer your heart tells you, there is one answer important to your legal proceedings: after the divorce is final. Dating while separated, but not yet divorced,…
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Can I File A Lawsuit On Behalf Of My Child In North Carolina?
As a parent, when one of our children is wronged, our first instinct is to try to make it right and fix it for them. Sometimes that means letting them work through it on their own, and sometimes that means stepping in and helping them. When a child is injured in an auto…
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That "Easy Online Divorce" Isn't So Easy
Divorce is not an easy process. What if there were a better way? There is! — At least if you believe some of the advertisements out there for an online divorce, or an “easy divorce.” Once advertisers realize you are separated, you will probably start to see…
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How To Find A Divorce Attorney
Choosing an attorney is difficult and it’s hard to know what questions to ask a divorce lawyer. You want to find someone who will be your advocate, fight for you, understand what you’re dealing with. You don’t want this person to be your therapist, but he/she will be privy to…
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Property During A Divorce: 13 Things You Should Know
Property is one of the main assets you’ll divide during divorce. Often, it’s a cause of big problems and arguments between partners. Here are 13 quick facts you should know: All earned income acquired during the marriage, no matter whose name it’s in, is considered to be…
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Returning To The Workforce After Divorce
A year ago, we found ourselves in need of a real estate agent, and we had the opportunity to meet an absolutely fantastic and inspiring woman we are proud to call a friend (and to whom we owe some time to catch up now that we think about it). When we first met Deb, we asked…
Read articleThe Divorce Process: What’s the First Thing I Should Do?
When someone is considering a divorce in Raleigh, they often ask: What’s the first thing I should do? While the first steps in the divorce process can depend on your situation, here are several things to do once you’ve decided divorce is the right path. Steps To Get a…
Read articleThe Pieces of an Estate Plan and How They Work Together
An estate plan, whether for single or married person, typically consists of a Durable General Power of Attorney, a Healthcare Power of Attorney, and a Last Will and Testament. Here’s how these pieces work together and why you need all three. A Durable General Power of…
Read article4 Considerations for Estate Planning If You Have Children With Special Needs
Parents who have children (including adult children) with special needs face unique challenges when it comes to planning for the future. Here are four things special needs parents might consider when putting together an estate plan. Name a Guardian. If you know that your…
Read article3 Reasons You Should Hire a Probate Attorney
The process of administering the estate of a person who has passed away can be confusing and frustrating for the surviving family members. Hiring an attorney who is knowledgeable and experienced with estate administration can ease your frustrations and save time and money.…
Read articleManaging Through A Crisis
Is it just a coincidence that the month of April is both Financial Awareness Month AND Alcohol Awareness Month? What is divine providence trying to tell us? The answer lies in the similarities between people who struggle with addiction and people who struggle with…
Read article3 Common Misconceptions About Estate Planning
Most people know what a Will is, but many have misconceptions about the importance of a regularly updated Will and what it can and can’t do for you. Here are three common misconceptions about estate planning. Read on and make sure you and your love ones are protected! “If I…
Read articleWhere There's A Will, There's A Way
No one likes to think about death - especially their own. However, good planning and preparation during life means one must address how one’s assets are distributed when they are no longer among the living. It’s not morbid, it’s responsible. That is what having a Will is all…
Read articleThe Price Of Peace In A Marriage
Unraveling a lifetime, a marriage, and/or a family is a very serious and complicated matter. It comes with pain and expense. However, it does not have to come with a court hearing. In fact, there are many ways to resolve marital conflict that do not necessarily involve formal…
Read articleTips For Less Stress In Your Divorce
Going through a divorce is tough - keep your stress levels low with these tips from one of our attorneys, Tamara Brooks. Do not sign anything you do not read. If you do not understand something you have read, find someone you trust to explain it to you.If you receive legal…
Read article3 Common Misconceptions About Estate Planning
Most people know what a Will is, but many have misconceptions about the importance of a regularly updated Will and what it can and can’t do for you. Here are three common misconceptions about estate planning. Read on and make sure you and your loved ones are protected! “If I…
Read articleFive Options for Your Separation and Divorce
You have options when it comes to your separation and divorce. Here are the five most common ways. 1. The Kitchen Table Approach Couples that communicate well can often work out a mutually convenient parenting plan for their children, make lists of their assets and debts,…
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Why Do I Need A Separation Agreement?
There is a common myth that separating from your spouse means filing some sort of magical paperwork and you are “officially” separated. The truth is, there is no official document to separate. In North Carolina, you must be physically separated (can not be…
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COVID-19 And Parenting Plans
In the turbulent world we now live in, many customs and plans must change. We all have to adjust while social distancing, working from home, wearing extraordinary personal protection equipment and taking precautions for health and safety. In the world of Family Law and Child…
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Separation In North Carolina - What Is Required?
In the state of North Carolina, you and your spouse must be separated for at least a year and one day before you are eligible for divorce. To be considered separated, you must be physically separated with the intent to remain separate and apart. When one spouse moves out of the…
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Custody Tips For Dads
For Dads, custody can be difficult to win, even though the courts do not discriminate against dads. Whether you are a father going for full custody or joint custody, you should be prepared for a difficult child custody battle, especially if the child's mother is also filing for…
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4 Reasons For A Prenup
A prenup is a contract that kind of resembles a separation agreement. It has a preamble of “Whereas” this and that. It talks about property like the house, bank accounts, retirement, alimony, and some child provisions. What it does? A prenup, in advance, lays out what is…
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Tips For Letting Go
There is nothing easy about letting go, especially when you are downsizing, handling the estate of a loved one or dividing a household in divorce. People have a tendency to keep too much because they find comfort in the “things” and the memories that go with them. In a…
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Child Custody And Planning For Summer
Believe it or not, summer is fast approaching. Before you know it, your kids will be out of school for the summer, and your normal custody arrangement will be changing for the summer. It’s especially important for divorced parents to plan ahead for the summer schedule. When…
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Divorce - The Four Pillar Approach
Divorce in North Carolina is governed by statutes and laws and is the legal end to a marriage and the rights that a marriage provides. It is the culmination of the required time of separation in North Carolina and the meeting of the statutory requirements for filing, serving,…
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Conquering the Bar Exam During the Pandemic
For third year law students, the month of May is an exciting time of the year where a law student graduates and celebrates their hard work after surviving three long years of studies. The celebration however, is usually only brief due to the approaching preparation period…
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Adoptions In North Carolina
“Adoption means the creation by law of the relationship of parent and child between two individuals” - N.C. G. S § 48-1-101(2). North Carolina law succinctly defines adoption in its statutes as stated above. However, the act of adoption is so much more. Yes, it is a creation…
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Absolute Divorce
Our entire practice is devoted to divorce and family law. Our Raleigh family lawyers are dedicated to advocating for you so you can have the life you want and deserve. We have had several calls during this international crisis concerning separation and divorce. If you…
Read articleRecommendations on Custody and Visitation During COVID-19
The Family Court Advisory Commission has issued new guidelines on custody and visitation recommendations during COVID-19. For more information, you can view the PDF here: CUSTODY AND VISITATION RECOMMENDATIONS DURING COVID-19.
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5 Strategies to Stay Civil While Staying Home Together
Most of us yearn for vacation time off, and we know that means more time with our family. However, suddenly, we are thrust in this very real scenario of staying home with our family indefinitely, while still working full time, home schooling our children, and maybe under…
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North Carolina Courts Closed Through June 1st
A recent order from the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court of North Carolina has ordered courts closed through June 1st, in addition to a few other things. To download the full release, click here.
Read articleAn Update On Custody Exchanges and COVID-19
The Wake County Family Court has issued a memo on court-ordered custody exchanges of minor children and how the COVID-19 pandemic affects it. The memo is below, or you can download the full PDF here. In light of Chief Justice Beasley’s recent announcement, the subsequent…
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A Message From Mary Gurganus
Your legal teams at Triangle Divorce Lawyers are working hard and able to consult with you by video conference, phone, and email. This will be our new normal during this viral outbreak, which we all hope will be over as soon as possible. If we can help in any way, please let us…
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Join Us At Drive Shack 10/18 From 10-1!
Your local Better Business Bureau is turning 50 this year! To celebrate, they are partnering with Drive Shack in Raleigh for a fundraiser that benefits education. Three person teams will compete in a tournament-style “best ball” format on Drive Shack’s virtual 18 hole…
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Mary Gurganus Honored With Top 10 Female Attorney Award
The American Institute of Family Law Attorneys has recognized the exceptional performance of Mary Gurganus of Triangle Divorce Lawyers in Raleigh, NC, as one of the Top 10 Female Attorneys For Client Satisfaction. The American Institute of Family Law Attorneys is a third-party…
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Five Steps To Use Apple’s New Parental Controls Effectively
If you’re like we are, you’ve experienced the drama that comes along with taking the iPad away from the kids after the set amount of viewing time you’ve allowed. There’s always complaining, and it’s no fun for either side of the battle. Especially with some of the research…
Read articleCan I Really Afford The House On My Own?
Often times, people want to simplify this question with “Yes, I can afford the mortgage.” There is so much more to look at than just the mortgage payment. There are also things to consider such as: Refinance Cost If you decide to keep the house after a divorce, you will most…
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Mary Gurganus Awarded 2019 AIOFLA 10 Best In NC For Client Satisfaction
The American Institute of Family Law Attorneys has recognized the exceptional performance of North Carolina’s Family Law Attorney Mary Gurganus as 2019 10 Best Family Law Attorney for Client Satisfaction. The American Institute of Family Law Attorneys is a third-party attorney…
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Modern Prenups and Milliennials
Most people think of a prenuptial agreement as a legal document for younger people with a valuable family trust fund to protect or some older person thinking about going into their second or third marriage. The need for a prenuptial agreement was also understandably less common…
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Triangle Divorce Lawyers Honored With Top 10 Family Law Firm Award
We're excited to announce that we have been honored with a Top 10 Family Law Firm award from Attorney and Practice Magazine! Attorney and Practice Magazine Top 10 awards are an achievement reserved for only those attorneys who have demonstrated the highest degree of excellence…
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Mary Gurganus Featured In Attorney At Law Magazine
Congrats to our own Mary Gurganus on being the Featured Family Law Attorney of the Month in Attorney At Law Magazine! In addition to this honor, the magazine wrote a great story about what it's like to work with our firm. From the ambiance of the 116 year old Victorian home we…
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Five Money Questions For Women - 2/26 Event
Join our friends from Edward Jones at their event, "Five Money Questions For Women", coming up on February 26th at 7pm. The event will be held at Party Delights, at 6150 Rogers Road in Wake Forest. To find out more or sign up, check out the link…
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Laughter for the Holidays During Divorce or Separation
Laughter really can be good medicine during divorce or separation. Here's how humor helps you cope with holiday stress, plus lighthearted ways to find joy this season.
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Triangle Divorce Lawyers Raises Funds for North East Wake Backpack Buddies
Triangle Divorce Lawyers, a firm with locations in Raleigh and across North Carolina, has pledged to give the proceeds from their client consultations on Nov. 7 and 8 to North East Wake Backpack Buddies. This non-profit organization gives children who face food insecurity access…
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Triangle Divorce Lawyers Honored with 2018 Law Firm 500 Award
Triangle Divorce Lawyers recently received the 2018 Law Firm 500 Award in honor of being one of fastest growing small law firms in the country. Triangle Divorce Lawyers has experienced exceptional growth through expanded services, a focus on achieving compassionate resolutions,…
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Five Tips to Improve Co-Parenting During Your Separation and Divorce
Life did not turn out the way you had expected it. You are heart-broken, angry, and for some, maybe even a little relieved that the relationship is over. Your ‘happily ever after’ story has ended in a separation. However difficult, you know you still have to work together with…
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Triangle Divorce Lawyers 2018 Spring Equinox Event
One of the most valuable assets a law firm can provide to its client, other than legal advice, is a list of trusted referral partners who have proven themselves to past clients and dedicated themselves to providing the best customer service and experience for the clients that…
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Valentine’s Day for Single Parents
Flowers, hearts, pink, red, roses, candy, cards and giant teddy bears. These are just a few things associated with Valentine’s Day, but they aren’t what Valentine’s Day is all about. Valentine’s Day is more than just about those heart shaped chocolate boxes, as delicious as they…
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What to do When you Suspect Your Spouse is Concealing Marital Assets from You
By Steven Fultonberg CPA/CVA No one likes to imagine that someone is purposely deceiving them or hiding information from them, especially if such actions involve concealing assets in a marriage. If your spouse is becoming more secretive, erasing trails of certain shared…
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Top 5 Ways to Handle Bullying in the Family
Bullying is not something to be taken lightly, both is children, teens and adults. According to the American Psychological Association, Bullying is a form of aggressive behavior in which someone intentionally and repeatedly causes another person injury or discomfort. Bullying…
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National Family Fit Lifestyle Month 2018
The most common New Year’s Resolution in the United States (according to 2015 Nielsen Study) regards getting in shape, whether it be getting healthy, losing weight or toning up. January is the best time to jumpstart those healthy living goals, especially since January is…
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New Year’s Resolutions for Those Considering or Seeking a Separation or Divorce in 2018
The New Year is a time to start fresh, with a clean slate and with a list of goals to accomplish in the upcoming months. It’s also a time when people take a hard look on their lives and make decisions of about what you want your future to look like. For those who have taken a…
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Top 7 Tips to Co-Parenting
Co-parenting takes the effort of both parents to be effective. Check out these 7 tips on effective co-parenting. 1. Be flexible with schedules. Your child’s life revolves around family, school and extracurriculars, and benefits when involved with special events at both…
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Celebrate Your Family History
November is Family Stories Month. Gather around the table and tell the stories that are rarely heard. While we're usually focused on making a better life and future for our children, it's important to be intentional about taking time to remember those people and times that…
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Your Child's Divorce
Divorce is a difficult topic to discuss, but in a society where 40%-50% of married couples in the United States, according to the American Psychological Association, end up in divorce, it is inevitable not to discuss it. Children of divorced families have their own experience…
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How To: Hide Your Web Browsing Activity (Part 1)
Hiding Your Web Browsing History is pretty important when you are researching sensitive topics like divorce, finding a new place to stay, or anything that might let your spouse know that you are considering action that would affect your marriage. Keeping your research hidden…
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Mary Gurganus Featured in IndyWeek's Wedding Issue
Not all marriages are built to last. But how do you know when to call it quits? After all, every relationship comes with its own set of growing pains and challenges; it's discerning the insurmountable ones that can sometimes require the eyes of a pro. Lucky for us, Mary…
Read articleHow disputes can make child exchanges dangerous
When North Carolina parents have ended their marriage, they will likely still share custody of their children. At some point, they must physically exchange custody. The actual exchange of the children can be dangerous, especially if one or both parents are not able to resolve…
Read articleTips for remaining financially secure after a divorce
North Carolina couples who are getting a divorce must be careful about ensuring their financial security. This can be a particular problem if one spouse is more knowledgeable about finances than the other or has a significantly higher income than the other. For example, while an…
Read articleDealing with late-in-life divorces in North Carolina
Many older individuals are getting divorced. Studies show that between 1990 and 2014, the rate of newly divorced people age 50 or older has doubled. Gray divorces, as they are called, can be significantly different from divorces of people who are younger. Along with the fact…
Read articleCompromising when one parent moves after divorce
North Carolina parents who get a divorce may initially focus on living near one another so that their children's lives are less disrupted, but that might change if one parent begins a relationship with someone who does not live nearby. That parent might eventually decide to move…
Read articleGrandparent visitation issues
In North Carolina and throughout the U.S., grandparents play an important part in the lives of their grandchildren. While relationships vary from family to family, in many cases, grandparents provide emotional assistance, child rearing help and even provide financial…
Read articleDifferent types of visitation after a divorce
When North Carolina parents are going through a divorce, disagreements over custody and visitation are not uncommon. However, knowing what to expect might help both parents make the transition more smoothly. In some cases, courts will order fixed visitation for the noncustodial…
Read articleTriangle Divorce Lawyers Named a 2016 Law Firm 500 Honoree
We are pleased to announce that our law firm has been named a 2016 Law Firm 500 Honoree. Earlier this year we were nominated for our growth, operational excellence and commitment to client service. It is an honor to be included as one of the top one-hundred fastest growing law…
Read articleJolie-Pitt custody agreement extended
North Carolina fans of actors Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt may be following their divorce and dispute over child custody. On Sept. 14, there was allegedly an altercation on a private jet involving Pitt. Less than a week later, Jolie filed for divorce. Pitt has denied that such…
Read articleProperty division and the Pitt-Jolie divorce
North Carolina residents who are following the divorce of Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt have likely heard that Jolie is asking for full physical custody of their children. Pitt may end up paying child support if she does get sole custody, but if he fights for joint custody and…
Read articleDomestic violence and child custody issues
North Carolina parents who are getting a divorce and who are also dealing with domestic violence might want to consider some myths that surround abuse and child custody. For example, a separation does not always result in a child being safe from domestic violence. One expert…
Read articleDividing retirement savings in a divorce
The National Center for Family & Marriage Research reports that twice as many adults over the age of 50 got divorced in 2014 compared to 1990, and the divorce rate for adults over 65 tripled. A survey also found that pensions and retirement accounts are among the most…
Read articleElectronic entertainment an uncertain factor in family law
It is not unusual for divorced parents in North Carolina to have divergent ideas about the best way to raise their children. In this modern era of constant electronic stimulation, that can mean the two parents have different conceptions of how much internet time is appropriate…
Read articleFiguring out the settlement agreement
A North Carolina divorce is seldom straightforward whether both parties want a simple resolution or not, as there are often several options for how to proceed. The problem is that each person might favor different ideas. In a hypothetical situation, a woman wants a divorce…
Read articleThe role of the primary caretaker in child custody decisions
If North Carolina parents who are going through a divorce cannot reach an agreement about child custody outside of court, a family court judge must rule on the matter. When a judge makes a ruling about primary physical custody, the judge typically favors the parent that is the…
Read articleClaiming ex-spousal benefits on Social Security
North Carolina residents who are at or near the age of retirement may be aware of the way in which their marital status affects their possible Social Security payments. There are circumstances under which the benefits derived from the other spouse's Social Security earnings…
Read articleLessons from high-profile divorces
North Carolina fans of actor Johnny Depp may have followed news of his divorce from Amber Heard. Depp is also selling off some of the paintings from his art collection, but insiders say it is probably not related to the divorce. Depp and Heard married in California, a community…
Read article$10 million settlement possible for Amber Heard in Depp divorce
North Carolina residents might be interested in learning that Amber Heard, the actress who is separating from Johnny Depp, could stand to gain as much as $10 million from her divorce settlement. If the couple does not have a prenuptial agreement, she will be entitled to receive…
Read articleAvoiding common child custody and visitation pitfalls
Divorcing parents often hope to avoid protracted and bitter legal disputes and get through the process amicably and quickly, but these hopes are sometimes dashed when it comes time to discuss child custody and visitation. These disputes can also place the children involved in a…
Read articlePreparing for divorce negotiations
North Carolina couples who are ending their marriages need to be ready for some changes. Divorces can have a significant impact on a person's finances for years after the settlement is reached. Apart from the financial strain that a divorce can induce, negotiations over matters…
Read articleEnding ongoing spousal support
When a couple in North Carolina divorces, one of the parties may be ordered to pay the other alimony. There are usually situations that signal an end to alimony payments like when the recipient remarries, but payments can continue for a long time in some cases. The actor David…
Read articleSummer Tax Checklist
Written By: David Amiss, CPA, CVA Carr, Riggs & Ingram, CPAs and Advisors New Year's Resolutions and Spring Cleaning are initiatives that focus on motivating individuals to address a perceived need. Accordingly, the aim of this article is twofold. First, to convince you of…
Read articleParental alienation issues in divorce cases
When a North Carolina judge deals with a contentious divorce situation involving issues such as one parent claiming that the other has abused their child, there can be challenges in assessing the validity of such a claim. In some cases, allegations of child abuse may be…
Read articleIs Love Enough? 6 Big Questions to Ask Before Marriage from Your Divorce Attorney
The institution of marriage has changed drastically in the last 50 years. Back in the day, a young woman would marry the similarly aged young man that lives down the street. Their respective parents would approve of the marriage, finding the perspective wife to be a decent care…
Read articleRestraining Order: Criminal or Domestic?
Written by Daniel Johnson of Willis Johnson & Nelson When the tension of a relationship ending leads someone to react with violence or in a threatening manner, it is not uncommon for the criminal justice system to step in and place significant restrictions on an…
Read articleThe role of trusts in complex asset division
Couples who manage to accumulate wealth and experience a certain lifestyle during their marriage could be in for a surprise in the event of a divorce. A high asset divorce in North Carolina can have a dramatic effect on the lives and finances of the parties. Retirement plans…
Read articleThe benefits of thinking about a parenting plan
When North Carolina parents who have young children go through a divorce, they may think a parenting plan is just another piece of paperwork to complete. However, these plans can have value when parents take the time to consider what will happen with their children once a…
Read articleFinancial planning important in divorce
North Carolina residents who are facing the end of their marriages should consider speaking to a financial adviser. This is a step many people put off until after the divorce, but at that point, they may have already made bad decisions that affect their future. When people have…
Read articleMarch Madness: NCAA Tournament, St. Patrick's Day, Spring Break and ...Alimony?
Typically when spouses decide to go their separate ways, there can be great difficulty in stretching income that would pay for expenses of one household to now pay for two. In North Carolina, the claim of alimony or spousal support is recognized and often brought by one party…
Read articleDealing with Taxes After Divorce
Residents of North Carolina who have gone through a divorce may soon need to adjust their approaches to filing their taxes. Perhaps the most important recent change is that a divorced party will now file as “single,” which means that records must be kept separately for use in…
Read articleWays a parent can help their child through a divorce
Children of divorced parents in North Carolina often have a hard time understanding their parents' decision to separate. Many children develop unhealthy thought patterns after the divorce when they start blaming themselves or taking sides with one parent. Parents can help their…
Read articleThe Many Feelings of Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day comes a week after this year's Super Bowl, and rightly so, as it is the Super Bowl of feelings. Whether you admit it or not, everyone has "feelings" on Valentine's Day. You may be the person with the highest of expectations, demanding roses and chocolates…
Read articleShepherd appealing parenting and support decision
North Carolina fans of "The View" may be familiar with the child support issues facing 48-year-old Sherri Shepherd, a former host of the television program. She went to court to challenge her responsibility for her child born through surrogacy, and the Pennsylvania Superior…
Read articleLosing the Dead Weight for the New Year!
January is the time for New Year's Resolutions, and if you are like me, weight loss is at the top of your list. By all means, proceed with the usual weight loss goals, but this year also make plans to drop a different type of weight... the emotional dead weight that may be…
Read articleWays to deal with custody issues around the holidays
The holiday season in North Carolina can bring with it difficult decisions about how to juggle two separate households for the child or children of divorce. Even the wisest and most even tempered parents have a tough time figuring out the custody arrangements around significant…
Read articleBankruptcy and Divorce in North Carolina
If someone is considering a divorce as well as a bankruptcy filing, it's important that he or she determines which action to take first. Individuals who file for bankruptcy at the wrong time could end up on the hook for a spouse's debts, even if they have discharged their own.…
Read article"Gotham" star ordered to pay child and spousal support
On behalf of Triangle Divorce Lawyers posted in Alimony on Thursday, December 3, 2015. North Carolina residents who are fans of the television series "Gotham" may have heard about the ongoing child custody dispute between actress Morena Baccarin and her estranged husband Austin…
Read article5 Tips for making transition easier during the holidays by Jessica Middleton, M.A.
Tis the season? We have entered one of the busiest seasons of the year. Halloween is a faint memory, and we are all gearing up for more celebrating, more family and more fun!...right? Well, not all of us.What do you do when you are dealing with the grief of divorce? How do you…
Read articleBoxes, Bows and Gifts to the Marriage
By Matthew Jackson The holidays are generally a time of family togetherness, merriment, and gift exchanges. Because of the traditions and hustle and bustle of the holiday season, many clients wait to seek legal services until after the holidays. Yet, it is commonly realized…
Read articleDealing with alimony
When people divorce in North Carolina, alimony or spousal support may be an issue. In many cases, one spouse will be ordered to make monthly alimony payments to the other, and these payments may be ordered on either a time-limited or an indefinite basis. Courts consider a…
Read articleDean McDermott behind on alimony payments to ex-wife
North Carolina residents may have heard about the marital problems of Tori Spelling and her husband Dean McDermott. After the two actors were married in 2005, they allowed reality television cameras to film their lives. In 2013, McDermott admitted that he had cheated on…
Read articleOut with the old and in with the new this Thanksgiving
By Triangle Divorce Lawyers of Triangle Divorce Lawyers on Monday, November 2, 2015. Thanksgiving is one of my favorite times of year. It is a day out of the hustle and bustle of normal fast-paced life to be with family and give thanks for everything you have, and in some…
Read articleClash between state and tribal courts in child custody case
North Carolina residents might like to learn about a story involving two contradicting rulings in a child custody case that started when the grandmother of a 5-year-old boy and an 8-year-old boy filed for custody in a tribal court, as the boys are members of the Northern…
Read articleForensic accountants and high asset divorce
The use of forensic accountants in high asset divorces is on the rise in North Carolina and around the country. Part of the reason for this trend is that wealthy couples are divorcing at an increased rate. Forensic accountants can help a court divide assets by providing a clear…
Read articleTrick or Treat Tips for Divorced Parents
Pumpkin spice everything has arrived and that can only mean one thing.....Halloween is just around the corner. If you share custody of your children, holidays can be stressful especially if there is no Order or Agreement that divides the holiday or if your children are not…
Read articleActress and billionaire agree to settle custody dispute
North Carolina parents who are embroiled in a child custody dispute might take heart in the reality that these issues can affect anyone, including the rich and famous. Such is the case with movie actress Uma Thurman and her former fiancé Arpad Busson regarding their 3-year-old…
Read articleModifying support orders in North Carolina
There may be North Carolina residents who can benefit from understanding more about the laws governing alimony. According to state statute, an alimony order may be modified if either party can show a significant change in circumstances. Once the recipient is determined to be…
Read articleSocial media and child custody issues
North Carolina parents who are going through a divorce and negotiating child custody matters should be aware of a recent ruling that might set a precedent for the way social media posts are used in custody battles. The ruling involved using a Facebook profile as evidence in a…
Read articleKelly Rutherford's child custody case
A California judge has ruled that the state does not have jurisdiction to hear Kelly Rutherford's custody case. For child custody cases in North Carolina and other states, children must have some connection with the state in order for a court to have jurisdiction. In…
Read articleKardashian breakup raises child custody questions
North Carolina celebrity watchers may already be aware of the breakup between Kourtney Kardashian and Scott Disick, who had three children together. There has been speculation regarding the likelihood of a custody battle between the two, as well as regarding the potential impact…
Read articlePrenuptial agreement guides divorce of Google co-founder
A person in North Carolina contemplating a high-asset divorce could learn from the quiet and seemingly uncontroversial divorce made final between one Google co-founder and his wife. This high-profile couple had been married for eight years, and their prenuptial agreement likely…
Read articleHighest-ever divorce settlement reduced by $4 billion
Even North Carolina couples facing complex divorces are unlikely to be dividing joint marital assets worth around $8.5 billion, but that is the estimated worth of one billionaire who was ordered to pay his ex-wife $4.5 billion. However, on appeal, a court reduced the amount to…
Read articleFinancial considerations for divorce
People in North Carolina who are going through a divorce should avoid some common financial mistakes. One of the more significant ones is not knowing enough about the family finances or where assets are located. An individual who cannot get this information from a spouse may…
Read articleThe problems of international child abductions
Child custody and visitation disputes are often a major concern of North Carolina parents when they go through a divorce. While most of these issues are resolved, some parents take the extreme action of taken the child to another country in violation of a court order. According…
Read articleChild custody for grandparents and other loved ones
Retaining custody of a child is not always an exclusive privilege of a parent. North Carolina grandparents, extended family members, or others who have a relationship with a child who is not biologically or legally theirs may be eligible for seeking custody of the child. Under…
Read articleSeeking emergency temporary custody
Not all North Carolina couples who decide that it is time to get a divorce make the decision amicably. In some cases that involve children, one parent may fear for the safety of their child or fear that the other parent may inhibit them from visiting their child. If there are…
Read articleNorth Carolina child custody and relocation
A custodial parent is generally not permitted to simply leave with any children in their custody, regardless of the reason. In divorce cases where children are involved, there is typically a clause that specifies that a custodial parent may not relocate outside of a given radius…
Read articleOverview of parenting agreements
Some parents in North Carolina who are going through a divorce or separation are usually able to agree on a custody arrangement outside of court. Many reach an agreement about child custody through informal negotiations while other parents use more formal mediation or…
Read articlePost-divorce retirement planning
Amid the stresses of a divorce, it is easy to put retirement planning on the back burner. However, divorce leaves spouses with altered financial circumstances that can affect retirement security. Whereas in marriage each spouse had the benefit of sharing household expenses and…
Read articleMaking a parenting plan outside of court
If you and your spouse have minor children and are getting a divorce, you have to work out with whom your children will live and who has decision-making power regarding major decisions about their lives. In North Carolina, amicably agreeing to a parenting plan can save you from…
Read articleChanging a custody order in North Carolina
As the lives and circumstances of divorced parents change, child custody orders may be changed also so that as you and your children grow and change, so can the terms of your child custody order. The law allows parents to request modifications to previously issued child custody…
Read articleVirtual visitation is possible child custody matters
North Carolina is one of the first states in the country that have passed statutes giving courts the freedom to use virtual visitation when settling child custody issues. Several other state governments are looking at electronic communication tools as an option for…
Read articleActor Gary Oldman facing another divorce
North Carolina residents may have heard that actor Gary Oldman will be getting divorced for the fourth time. The actor married his current wife, a singer, in 2008. Mr. Oldman's wife filed the petition in Los Angeles County Superior Court on Jan. 9, citing irreconcilable…
Read articleActions to enforce alimony orders in North Carolina
There are some cases in North Carolina in which a person who was ordered to pay a former spouse alimony either falls delinquent or refuses to pay at all. In those cases, the law provides several remedies for the intended recipient to utilize in order to collect the amounts…
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