Divorce articles

104 articles on divorce from the family law team at Triangle Divorce Lawyers.

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Thinking About Divorce in the New Year in North Carolina

New Year’s momentum can bring a lot into focus, including a marriage that no longer feels stable, safe, or workable. If divorce is on your mind, you do not have to figure out the next steps alone. A strong plan can help you protect your children, your finances, and your…

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How Long Does Divorce Take in North Carolina?

If you're considering divorce in North Carolina, one of the first questions you may have is: How long will this take? While every case is different, North Carolina law outlines a clear timeline for divorce. Understanding the process can help you prepare emotionally,…

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What Is Nesting in Divorce—and Does It Work?

When a family separates, one of the hardest questions is: Where will the children live? For parents focused on minimizing disruption to their kids' lives, nesting—sometimes called birdnesting—offers a creative, short-term solution during or after divorce. But is it a smart…

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Finding Hope During Divorce: Support, Strength & a New Start

Divorce can feel like your world is crumbling—but you are not alone. While the journey may feel overwhelming, it can also be the start of rediscovering your strength, healing your heart, and building a future that reflects who you truly are. As a real estate professional who…

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Social Media and Divorce: What You Post Can Be Used Against You

It’s second nature to share updates online—whether it’s a weekend trip, a new relationship, or even a bad day. But if you’re going through a separation or divorce in North Carolina, it's time to pause before you post. Why? Because what you share on social media can be used…

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Should You Choose Legal Separation Or Divorce in North Carolina?

When your marriage reaches a crossroads, the path forward isn't always clear. In North Carolina, couples facing marital difficulties have two primary legal options: separation or divorce. Each choice carries distinct advantages and challenges that can significantly impact your…

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What To Ask When Hiring a Divorce Lawyer in North Carolina

Whether you’re looking forward to your divorce or are facing it with a heavy heart, you need an experienced divorce lawyer to guide you through the process. The right lawyer will protect your interests, assist you with child custody, and ensure a fair division of property…

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Child Custody Laws in NC: What Parents Need To Know

Divorcing parents often fear the child custody process. They worry that the separation will wreak havoc on their child's routine and stability. But child custody laws in NC seek to facilitate an arrangement that places your child's best interests as the highest priority.…

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Navigating Divorce: Insights and Guidance

Divorce is rarely easy. It's a significant life event that brings about a whirlwind of emotions, from grief and anger to relief and hope for the future. As divorce attorneys, we understand that the legal process is just one aspect of divorce; the emotional journey is equally…

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Legal Considerations After Divorce

Finalizing a divorce formally dissolves your marriage, but it also sets off a cascade of legal implications you’ll be navigating for some time afterwards. From dividing up assets to arranging child custody, this complex new landscape can feel overwhelming initially. As your…

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Stepparent Rights and Responsibilities

Becoming a step-parent brings joy and challenges. You gain a spouse and instant family, taking on a parenting role with step-children. It can be gratifying. But it also comes with complex legal and emotional dynamics to navigate. When you marry someone with kids from a previous…

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The Costs of Divorce: What North Carolina Residents Should Know

The average cost of a divorce in North Carolina varies on the details of the case - on one side, there are high net worth divorces that often take years to resolve. On the other side, a divorce with minimal assets and no children will be relatively affordable. For your specific…

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Different Types of Divorce in North Carolina

Although the divorce rate in the United States has leveled off in recent years, it’s still over 40% for first marriages. The divorce rate for subsequent marriages may be as high as 60%. All marriage dissolutions involve emotional and financial issues regardless of the type of…

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How to File for Divorce in North Carolina

For spouses in North Carolina considering getting a divorce, the process can seem rather daunting.  Between work, taking care of the kids, and other social and professional responsibilities, working to develop an understanding of the divorce laws in their state can inadvertently…

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Helpful Financial Tips on How to Prepare for a Divorce

During a divorce it can seem like your mind is scattered all over the place; you’ll make hundreds of critical decisions that impact how smoothly your divorce goes and your future beyond. These decisions affect not only you but your children and ex-spouse as well. The area of…

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4 Tips to Help Your Teen with Your Divorce

Helping a teen cope during your divorce is a unique challenge. Older children are more likely to be rebellious and keep their feelings hidden, and of course, they are going through their own things at this stage. Typically, the younger the child, the more likely they are to…

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Helpful Financial Tips on How to Prepare for a Divorce

During a divorce it can seem like your mind is scattered all over the place; you’ll make hundreds of critical decisions that impact how smoothly your divorce goes and your future beyond. These decisions affect not only you but your children and ex-spouse as well. The area of…

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Dividing a Business During a Divorce

Going through a divorce is stressful. You must set up new living arrangements, decide child custody, and divide assets and debt. If one or both partners own a business, that’s one more element to manage. Dividing a business can be confusing and tedious. After all, a house is…

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How to Get Divorced if Your Ex is Not Speaking to You

Sometimes getting divorced is a mutual decision between you and your spouse, and the process runs (somewhat) smoothly. In many cases, the decision to divorce is one-sided. In those situations, the partner who is unwilling will eventually go along with the process — even if he or…

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How to Get Through the Painful Process of Divorce

Divorce can come quickly and out of nowhere, especially if it’s unwanted in your mind. You have to deal with many changes, emotionally and physically. It can feel overwhelming and as though you don’t know where to turn. Take a deep breath, and try to think as clearly as…

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3 Ways to Manage as a Single-Income Family after Divorce

A divorce means adjusting to a single income, even if that income includes child support or spousal support.  We’ve talked recently about budgeting in advance, so you know what to expect, but if you’re struggling to figure out life on a lower income, here are some…

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Warning: Think Now about Your Financial Life after Divorce

One of the biggest mistakes some women make in divorce is keeping the house. But part of the reason they do that is they make the other big mistake: not thinking about their financial life after divorce.  We’re not picking on women. Studies show women are more often the…

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Divorce FAQ: Should I Get the House Appraised?

Should I get the house appraised? It’s a frequent question in our monthly divorce workshops. During a divorce, you and your spouse will divide most of your assets. While many personal items may be easy to label “yours” and “mine” (e.g., an inherited antique vanity, a prized…

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Beginning Again After Divorce Later in Life

When your life has been a certain way for many years, adjusting to a new routine can be difficult. After a divorce, life will inevitably change as you shift from a shared life to a life of your own. Life after divorce will not be easy, but it is possible to begin…

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Do I Need a Separation Agreement to Get Divorced in NC?

Many couples choose to live separately for a “trial period” before choosing divorce. If you find yourself in a similar position, you may want to consider a legal separation. A separation agreement is a legally binding agreement between spouses which lays out the terms of…

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Age Doesn’t Negate Alimony in Gray Divorce

Getting divorced after years of marriage is no longer unheard of. “Gray Divorce,” or divorce between couples over the age of 50, became increasingly common between 1990 and 2010.  One of our divorce workshop attendees recently asked about alimony and other financial…

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How to Get Divorced Emotionally

Separation is emotionally draining for all parties, but it can be even harder for those who didn’t see it coming. If a divorce was your spouse’s idea, you might have difficulty separating emotionally from him or her, especially if your relationship was fairly long. When so many…

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What “stigmas” will I face as a divorcee?

There will always be people who disagree with divorce. They could be your parents, friends, coworkers, or even strangers. These people have reasons why they are anti-separation, but regardless of their beliefs, divorces are just part of reality. Whether it’s because of an…

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Insights for Dealing with a Narcissist During Divorce

During a divorce, the feelings we once had for our partner twist and often turn into something ugly. We may think or call them bad names. Some partners probably deserve this treatment, though of course, others do not. One label often tossed out during divorce is a…

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What Will Happen if My Spouse Stops Paying the Mortgage?

Mortgage and credit questions abound when you’re going through a divorce. Splitting from your spouse legally and financially requires several steps, especially if you own a house. Many couples choose to sell the house; often one partner cannot carry the burden of mortgage…

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Married in a Different Country: How Do I Divorce in the U.S.?

Whether you and your partner married overseas in a destination wedding or unexpectedly eloped while traveling, the rules of divorce aren’t too different for those who get married in another country. Marriage is a state issue, not a federal, so the laws governing divorce vary…

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Is There a Best Time to Consult a Divorce Attorney?

Most people know that if you’re thinking about divorce, a lawyer is one of your first calls. But some of our participants have asked, “When is the best time to consult an attorney?” In North Carolina, you must be legally separated for one full year before a divorce can go…

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How Can I Legally Prove Marital Misconduct?

North Carolina recognizes marital misconduct as a reason for legal separation; it can also leverage the post-separation support. No matter what form of misconduct your spouse may have committed (or still be committing), you may want to gather some evidence to aid your…

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Who Pays for the Divorce?

The cost of divorce is something a lot of people worry about. You already know the costs will mount as you look for a new place to live and begin paying separate bills. How will you get the money to pay the divorce attorney's fees? Also, there are other professionals to consider…

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How to Keep the Kids Out of Your Divorce

Kids are often the biggest concern people list when discussing divorce. How will they be affected? What can we do to make it easier? There’s a good reason to be concerned: children caught in the middle of their parents’ divorce fare far worse, with more emotional problems,…

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How to Tell Someone You Want a Divorce

You’ve been thinking about divorce for months. You’ve attended our divorce workshop in Raleigh. You’ve spoken to a divorce attorney, a financial advisor, maybe a therapist. After a lot of soul searching, you decide yes, divorce is the right path. Now, it’s time to separate from…

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A Case for Child Support When Parents Have 50/50 Custody

Child custody and child support prompt plenty of questions. Decisions surrounding the children are one of the most important parts of divorce and tend to cause the most conflict. We heard this excellent question recently at our Raleigh divorce workshop. Because it’s a frequently…

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How Can I Convince My Spouse to Divorce Amicably?

Divorce on peaceful terms is far easier and will certainly cost less than a divorce full of contention. An amicable divorce is also far better if you have children. After all, you’re going to continue to be involved somewhat in each other’s lives. But if your spouse doesn’t want…

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What Should I Do If My Spouse Accuses Me Of Cheating?

Adultery is a serious thing, one of the reasons a marriage may end in divorce. But what if your spouse or partner accuses you of cheating when you are completely innocent? This will play out in two ways:  In scenario one, your partner will realize his or her error and…

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What Is Collaborative Divorce?

Collaborative divorce is one way to approach the divorce process. While this approach is not for everyone, if both partners are on good terms, it can make divorce as easy as possible. What is Collaborative Divorce? Collaborative divorce is basically what it sounds like:…

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Five Ways To Manage The Stress From A Divorce

Divorce is stressful. Saying so feels like platitudes, an obvious statement gone stale from too many repeats. But the stress of divorce is unique, one of those situations you cannot fully understand until you’ve lived through it. Suddenly, you’re in this club and only people who…

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Can I Get an Annulment Instead of a Divorce?

Couples who have not been married very long may be wondering about annulment. Annulment sounds like a shortcut, an easier way to break off the marriage and start over. But annulment isn’t necessarily the easy path some imagine, and not everyone qualifies. Here is what you need…

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Grandparents Rights After A Divorce In North Carolina

Divorce brings up a lot of questions about child support and child custody. The partners who are splitting bear most of the weight while making these decisions, but there is one group of people who may also feel concerned: grandparents. Grandparents’ Custodial Rights If…

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What Documents Will I Need For My Divorce?

Divorce requires paperwork. Unfortunately, gathering up the paperwork and information you need can be difficult, especially if you’re not the person who manages those documents and accounts. Still, if you are thinking about divorce or have already decided on divorce, there…

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How to Tell Friends and Family about Your Divorce

Once you and your spouse decide to get a divorce, you’ll have to figure out when and where to tell people. Of course telling the children is the biggest hurdle, but telling friends and family about your divorce is difficult and can cause additional stress. There are no rules…

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Protecting Your Children During A Divorce

Divorce is an epic split, often resulting in sadness, bitterness, anger and more. With all the rage, guilt and other terrible feelings, it’s easy for a couple to fight over just about everything, including the children. But what happens to those children as they see their…

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Can I Buy A New House After A Divorce?

In our monthly divorce workshop, we hear a lot of the same concerns, fears, and questions. Divorce is a confusing time, and many people experiencing it have similar concerns. One our most frequently asked questions is about the house. Can I keep it? What about my credit? And…

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Can I Start Dating Before My Divorce Is Finalized?

People often ask friends, family, and therapists when is the best time to date again after divorce. No matter the answer your heart tells you, there is one answer important to your legal proceedings: after the divorce is final. Dating while separated, but not yet divorced,…

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That "Easy Online Divorce" Isn't So Easy

Divorce is not an easy process. What if there were a better way?  There is! — At least if you believe some of the advertisements out there for an online divorce, or an “easy divorce.”  Once advertisers realize you are separated, you will probably start to see…

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How To Find A Divorce Attorney

Choosing an attorney is difficult and it’s hard to know what questions to ask a divorce lawyer. You want to find someone who will be your advocate, fight for you, understand what you’re dealing with. You don’t want this person to be your therapist, but he/she will be privy to…

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Divorce - The Four Pillar Approach

Divorce in North Carolina is governed by statutes and laws and is the legal end to a marriage and the rights that a marriage provides. It is the culmination of the required time of separation in North Carolina and the meeting of the statutory requirements for filing, serving,…

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Top 7 Tips to Co-Parenting

Co-parenting takes the effort of both parents to be effective. Check out these 7 tips on effective co-parenting. 1. Be flexible with schedules. Your child’s life revolves around family, school and extracurriculars, and benefits when involved with special events at both…

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Your Child's Divorce

Divorce is a difficult topic to discuss, but in a society where 40%-50% of married couples in the United States, according to the American Psychological Association, end up in divorce, it is inevitable not to discuss it. Children of divorced families have their own experience…

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How To: Hide Your Web Browsing Activity (Part 1)

Hiding Your Web Browsing History is pretty important when you are researching sensitive topics like divorce, finding a new place to stay, or anything that might let your spouse know that you are considering action that would affect your marriage. Keeping your research hidden…

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Lessons from high-profile divorces

North Carolina fans of actor Johnny Depp may have followed news of his divorce from Amber Heard. Depp is also selling off some of the paintings from his art collection, but insiders say it is probably not related to the divorce. Depp and Heard married in California, a community…

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Preparing for divorce negotiations

North Carolina couples who are ending their marriages need to be ready for some changes. Divorces can have a significant impact on a person's finances for years after the settlement is reached. Apart from the financial strain that a divorce can induce, negotiations over matters…

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Summer Tax Checklist

Written By: David Amiss, CPA, CVA Carr, Riggs & Ingram, CPAs and Advisors New Year's Resolutions and Spring Cleaning are initiatives that focus on motivating individuals to address a perceived need. Accordingly, the aim of this article is twofold. First, to convince you of…

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The role of trusts in complex asset division

Couples who manage to accumulate wealth and experience a certain lifestyle during their marriage could be in for a surprise in the event of a divorce. A high asset divorce in North Carolina can have a dramatic effect on the lives and finances of the parties. Retirement plans…

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"Gotham" star ordered to pay child and spousal support

On behalf of Triangle Divorce Lawyers posted in Alimony on Thursday, December 3, 2015. North Carolina residents who are fans of the television series "Gotham" may have heard about the ongoing child custody dispute between actress Morena Baccarin and her estranged husband Austin…

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Boxes, Bows and Gifts to the Marriage

By Matthew Jackson The holidays are generally a time of family togetherness, merriment, and gift exchanges. Because of the traditions and hustle and bustle of the holiday season, many clients wait to seek legal services until after the holidays. Yet, it is commonly realized…

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Dealing with alimony

When people divorce in North Carolina, alimony or spousal support may be an issue. In many cases, one spouse will be ordered to make monthly alimony payments to the other, and these payments may be ordered on either a time-limited or an indefinite basis. Courts consider a…

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Prenuptial agreement guides divorce of Google co-founder

A person in North Carolina contemplating a high-asset divorce could learn from the quiet and seemingly uncontroversial divorce made final between one Google co-founder and his wife. This high-profile couple had been married for eight years, and their prenuptial agreement likely…

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Highest-ever divorce settlement reduced by $4 billion

Even North Carolina couples facing complex divorces are unlikely to be dividing joint marital assets worth around $8.5 billion, but that is the estimated worth of one billionaire who was ordered to pay his ex-wife $4.5 billion. However, on appeal, a court reduced the amount to…

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Financial considerations for divorce

People in North Carolina who are going through a divorce should avoid some common financial mistakes. One of the more significant ones is not knowing enough about the family finances or where assets are located. An individual who cannot get this information from a spouse may…

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Actor Gary Oldman facing another divorce

North Carolina residents may have heard that actor Gary Oldman will be getting divorced for the fourth time. The actor married his current wife, a singer, in 2008. Mr. Oldman's wife filed the petition in Los Angeles County Superior Court on Jan. 9, citing irreconcilable…

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